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Stillness & Sangha

Two days inside the quietest tradition in the Himalayas.

Fri–SunYear-round8–12 — monasteries welcome guests, not crowds

Bir is one of the few places in India where mindfulness isn't a retreat-brochure word — it's the neighbourhood. Tibetan monasteries hold evening prayers ten minutes from your bed. A world-respected institute teaches meditation on donation. An 800-year-old Shiva temple stands half an hour down the road. No tents, no trekking, no adrenaline required — just stillness, good tables, and a group small enough to become a sangha.

Group size

8–12 — monasteries welcome guests, not crowds

Fitness

Gentle. The waterfall walk is the one real stretch, unhurried and mindful by design.

Season

Genuinely year-round — our monsoon-proof, winter-friendly weekend.

Who it's for

The tired-of-being-busy professional, parents escaping without gear-shopping first, anyone 25 to 75 who wants the mountains without a single cold night.

This is for you if…

You want the Himalayas without a single cold night or a piece of trekking gear
You're curious about meditation but would never book a ten-day silent retreat
Two living traditions — Buddhist and Shaiva — in one weekend sounds richer than one long hike
Hot siddu, a dham feast, and a real bed matter as much as the practice does

Honestly, not for you if…

You came for adrenaline — the optional Sunday flight is a footnote here, not the headline
You want camping — this weekend runs entirely from real beds in Bir
The arc, not the itinerary

Three days, told the way they feel.

The walk up to Chokling Monastery through its gardens
Evening prayers in the hall, watched from the edge
Mani stones carved and painted with mantras
A monastery courtyard in the Colony
Friday · Bir (~1,400 m)

Stepping into the quiet

Prayer wheels, butter lamps, and a sunset over the tea gardens.

Early arrivals get a long brunch; everyone gets a 2 PM welcome circle — one honest sentence on what you're hoping gets quieter this weekend. A slow, hosted walk through the Tibetan Colony to Chokling Monastery — prayer wheels, butter lamps, standing quietly at the edge of prayers when timing allows. A tea-garden sunset, then dinner at a Tibetan family-run kitchen.

Banghodu waterfall, off the tourist map above Bir
The mindful walk out, one stretch of it in silence
A monastery gate on the way back into the Colony
The gently hosted fire circle that closes the day
Saturday · Bir → a hidden waterfall → Bir

Practice, and a walk in silence

Sitting taught from zero, then one stretch of trail without words.

A proper guided sitting practice from zero, taught for first-timers. Then a mindful walk to a waterfall off the tourist map, one stretch of it in silence. Hot siddu and lunch back in Bir, a protected rest block, another sunset walk, a mountain film and Q&A, and a dham feast to close the day — followed by a gently hosted fire circle.

Baijnath’s 800-year-old stone Shiva temple
The institute courtyard where the final sit happens
Institute grounds and stupas in Bir
Monks in the Tibetan Colony
Sunday · Bir → Baijnath → Bir

Two traditions, one morning

A final sit, then an 800-year-old temple still in daily worship.

The final sit of the weekend at the Deer Park Institute, then Baijnath — an 800-year-old stone Shiva temple still in daily worship, timed for a quiet mid-morning visit. A long café lunch, a closing circle, and a take-the-practice-home card. Those who opted in head to Billing for an optional flight; everyone else has a free-flowing afternoon before goodbye tea.

This is the arc, not the hour-by-hour. Get the full itinerary →

Signature moments

Everything below is genuinely hosted — not a highlight reel of things that might happen.

Standing quietly at the edge of prayers at Chokling Monastery

Guided sitting practice from zero — first-timers are the point

A hidden waterfall, walked one stretch in silence

Hot siddu straight off the steamer

A mountain film + Q&A, when the calendar allows

A dham feast, then a gently hosted fire circle

Morning meditation at the Deer Park Institute

Baijnath’s 800-year-old Shiva temple, still in daily worship

What's handled

  • 2 nights’ stay in Bir — real beds, hot showers, every night
  • All ground transport, including the Baijnath trip
  • Every meal, Friday brunch to Sunday goodbye tea — including the dham
  • Guided sitting practice, the monastery walk, the film + Q&A, the closing circle
  • Optional tandem paragliding, weather and pilots permitting — no extra charge from us
  • Your trip photos, shared as a digital album within the week

Good to know — the honest bits

  • Monastery visits happen as respectful guests, never as tour operators — ceremony timings vary and are confirmed weekly.
  • The waterfall walk is the one real stretch of the weekend — gentle, mindful, with plenty of sitting built in.
  • The dham is vegetarian by tradition and gloriously abundant — tell us dietary needs at booking.
  • The optional Sunday flight follows the flying seasons (Oct–Nov, Mar–May) and most guests on this weekend skip it — that's fine.
  • No alcohol at the fire circle — stillness is better sober.

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